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Sunday, January 12, 2014

Letter - Mom's birthday, Young Women's President

Sunday, January 12, 2014

Happy birthday to my wonderful mother today!!  I love her dearly.  She is beautiful and caring and spiritual and a wonderful example of faithfulness.

This week has gone well.  We’ve made our way back into the school routine nicely.  Tuesday I was so nervous about my first night of teaching the Young Men (YM) and Young Women (YW) in the ward the songs for the cultural celebration.  It went well though.  I wrote up a little pep talk and a lesson plan that I’ll include at the end of this letter.  Tuesday my eye started to get red again.  I don’t think I really ever had pink eye, but that my sinuses were infected and started putting pressure on my eye.  They were bothering me again that day.  I decided to try going to my chiropractor who also does holistic care and he massaged my sinus areas and the redness went away and I’ve been feeling better.  I keep massaging them here at home too.  I wish the urgent care doctor would have known that it was my sinuses and not pink eye and that I wouldn’t have used antibiotic eye drops for the wrong diagnosis, but I’m sure he was just doing his best.  I was really freaked out all Tuesday that my eye was getting red again.  Every time I have something wrong with me that isn’t normal I automatically assume I have cancer and that I’m going to die and leave my little children motherless.  It’s really scary sometimes, but I can usually break out of the fear when I pray and reason with myself and trust the Lord that whatever His plan is for me will be ok. Having those fears and then the nervousness of teaching the YM and YW on the same day was kind of crazy though.


Chad was wiped out after going back to work on Monday
The Young Men and Young Women from Coronado 1st and 2nd ward's learning the Fire Dance for the Gilbert Temple Cultural Celebration. 


Wednesday I went to the temple while the girls were at Grammy Days.  It was nice to be in such a peaceful place after the anxiety I had felt the day before.  Wednesday afternoon I planned out our meals for the next week and made a grocery shopping list.  One of my goals for 2014 is to do better at meal planning and eat out less and eat less quick prep meals like chicken nuggets and hot dogs and junk food like that.

Marlee and Tilly were having fun stuffing their shirts full of little hot wheel cars.  Tilly has been playing with the cars a lot this week.  She likes to line them all up.



Thursday the girls and I did a big shopping trip at Walmart to buy all the items I’d written down the day before.  We only had a little over an hour to get in and out before I needed to take Marlee to preschool. The girls, Marlee and Tilly, did so well during the shopping trip; they stayed right by me, were happy, and kept up with my quick pace.  Hooray for that!!

Friday was a nice relaxing day.  I watched my friend Michelle’s daughter Victoria again.  We went to the blue park in our neighborhood where we met up with our friends the Sorenson’s.  It was such a beautiful day.  After lunch we went out in the back yard and played some more since it was such a nice, sunny day.  Friday evening Chad and I went out to eat at YC’s Mongolian grill.  We haven’t been there for several years, I forgot that I love that place. 







Yesterday was a fun family day.  We attended my niece Adelin’s baptism and had a nice lunch in Brandon and Jennifer’s home then we came home and got ready for the birthday party I’d planned for my Mom since she was in town.  Penny’s, Celeste’s, Wynn’s, Tyler’s, Brandon’s, Amy’s families were all able to come to our home for the party.  We had a nice time.











Today I was sustained and set apart as the Young Women’s president in our ward.  I was called clear back on Dec. 18th so I’ve known for a while, but have had to keep my mouth shut about it.  For someone who’s life is such an open book it’s been hard to keep it quiet.  I did tell my Mom, Brenda, a few of my family members and my friend Renee Dawson who I served with in the Stake Primary Presidency, but they all kept my secret.  However, most of the ward already knew I was going to get the calling.  I never said anything to anyone in the ward, but news travels fast.  Here is my journal excerpt about my feelings about the call that I omitted from the letter I emailed out on Dec. 22nd“Wednesday night I had a meeting with the Bishop.  I was called to be the Young Women’s President in our ward.  WOW!  I’m excited, nervous, and maybe just a bit overwhelmed, ok a lot overwhelmed.  After fasting on Thursday, going to the temple on Friday and lots and lots of thought and prayer I’ve chosen these women to help me: First counselor - Rebecca Hall, Second counselor – Heather Robinson, and Secretary – Emily Lines.  I feel like these women are who the Lord would like to teach the young women in our ward at this time.  I hope they will accept their call.”  Each of the ladies accepted the call to work with me and I think we will do well together.  We all got set apart together today.  When the Bishop called me he told me I would be able to know why the Lord chose me and what my purpose would be in this calling.  I really feel like one of my major purposes is the show the joy that comes from being a wife and mother, that it is something to be sought after and not to be put on the back burner.  That it is important to marry the right person, in the right place, at the right time.  Each of my counselors places a high priority on family life and I appreciate that about them.  We've had a nice relaxing evening hanging out with our little family tonight.  I love these kind of nights.  


Karalee's been sick with a sore throat and a belly ache. Chad brought her home after sacrament meeting, but since I was getting sustained today we talked her into going for just the first hour.







Tilly loves a good back rub.
My quote today is from the book I’m ready right now.  “Divine love is the key to churches that cleave together, to marriages that last and families that overcome, to friendships that forgive insult, and hands that reach out to those who are different from us.  We’ve got to love each other more than we love our own reflections in the mirror.  When we can do that, love is both a sword and a shield.  No matter where we go, or what kind of battle we’re facing, it’s all the armor we need” (Blue Moon Bay by Lisa Wingate).  I thought this was a beautiful quote.  It’s not scripture, but it rings true and is a good message.

Love,

Mindy

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