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Sunday, October 11, 2015

Letter - Fall Break, Rocky Point Trip, How to Be Happy


Sunday, October 11, 2015

It has been a wonderful Sabbath Day so far.  We had stake conference this weekend and had Elder Zaballos of the seventy as a general authority visitor.  He was fun to listen to because of his accent.  He speaks great English, but would forget words from time to time and ask if certain things were words.  He has lived his whole life in Chile until he recently moved to the united states one and a half months ago.  He was one of the speakers in the last April 2015 general conference that spoke in Spanish.  Anyway, he told many great stories from his life and then gave a great talk today about how we can improve our happiness.  I’ll include my notes from his talk at the end of this letter.

Leg wrestling pics from last Sunday evening


 Last Monday was the first day of my kid’s fall break from school.  I was busy shopping for our Rocky Point trip, making brownies for our ward’s men’s shelter assignment and making a flyer/invitation for our ward Halloween party so the kids spent most of the day lounging around and watching Disney movies together.  They didn’t seem to mind that too much. J  I’m glad they weren’t too bored.  Sometimes it is nice to just take a day to be lazy though. 

Late Tuesday morning the kids and I took a bike ride to the dollar store and then we decided to ride to the tunnel under Germann road.  The tunnel is in between Ranch House Pkwy. and Power Rd.  It has become a tradition to ride there each fall break.  It was really fun and I got some cute pictures.  I should have had Spencer take a turn pulling Marlee and Tilly in the bike trailer though because my legs were pretty tired the rest of the day.  That afternoon I got clothes packed—note to self, I packed way to many clothes, next year I can just pack swim suits, pajamas and maybe one pair of clothes since we stay on the beach until it gets dark pretty much every day.  At mutual that night there were not many girls there because so many people were out of town for fall break.











I love, love, love this picture.
Wednesday we got everything packed up and loaded and left to Rocky Point on time!!  That almost never happens.  I think we were all excited for our vacation to start.  We invited Spencer’s friend Danner Bowen to come with us this year since we have an extra seat.  He was fun to have around and was helpful and kind.  Our vacation was so relaxing.  I loved the beach!!  We had Wednesday and most of Thursday to spend by ourselves and then several of our friends and their families arrived on Thursday evening—the Buhrley, Sorenson, Lantz, Lines, Clayton, and Sandall families.  We played on the beach each day until dark and then at night Chad and I stayed up late visiting with the adults while the kids played games on the lawn of the resort.  It was so fun.  I’m so glad that the kids still have another whole week and a day of fall break left so we can relax and do fun things.  I wish Chad had more time off too, but sadly he goes back to work tomorrow.











  The boys turning themselves into "sugar cookies".  The did this at least 20 times.  It was funny.  From left to right--Bryant, Danner, Spencer, and a boy from school that came over to say hi to Spencer and Danner.














We stopped at the dirt mall for souvenirs on our way out of town.


We got home yesterday afternoon just in time to unpack and get a load of laundry done before the adult session of stake conference.  Our ward choir was asked to sing for the special number and since our choir pianist was out of town I was asked to play for the choir.  It was fun to accompany again.  I think that is my best musical talent.  Today Spencer and I sang in the stake choir.  We even got to stand and sit by each other for the whole time.  It was fun to do that together.

For my quotes today I’ll share one quote from last night’s stake conference session and one quote from today’s session:
·         Last night Pres. Nattress, of the Gilbert, AZ Mission, asked us, “What think ye of Christ?”  I know that Christ loves me.  I know that he has surely has borne my griefs and carried my sorrows. (Isaiah 53:4)
·         Today Elder Zeballos taught us how to be happy:
1.      Obedience to the laws of God.  D&C 11:20 “Behold, this is your work, to keep my commandments, yea, with all your might, mind and strength.”  The Lord’s work is to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man (Moses 1:39)  “…ye should consider on the blessed and happy state of those that keep the commandments of God…” (Mosiah 2:41).  If you’re not happy, consider what commandments you need to improve on.
2.      Repentance.  When we really repent he is always ready, always willing to bless us.  Sin is contrary to the nature of happiness.  Wickedness never was happiness. (Alma 41)  If you want to be happier, find what you need to repent of and do it now.
3.      Forgiveness.  Some say I can forgive, but I can’t forget.  That is another way of saying I can’t forgive.  We have to let our heart forget.  We can’t have any bad feelings for that person remain.  If we want to be happier, identify who we need to forgive and do it now.
4.      Bring souls into the kingdom.  D&C 18:15-16.  In a recent training he attended with President Monson, the prophet reemphasized the importance of going to the rescue.
5.      When I have the spirit I am happy“I am perfectly satisfied that my Father and my god is a cheerful, pleasant, lively, and good-natured Being. Why? Because I am cheerful, pleasant, lively and good-natured when I have His Spirit…. That arises from the perfection of His attributes; He is a jovial, lively person, and a beautiful man” (Heber C. Kimball)
6.      Patience also bring happiness.
Love,
Mindy

Gilbert San Tan Stake Conference Notes
Saturday, Oct. 10th Adult Session
·         President Trendler – 1st councilor in stake presidency
o   What we become in the future is based on what we do today.
o   The true love we have for others is manifested in follow up.
o   Where there are priesthood keys, you will find councils.
o   The ward council has responsibility for ward members.
·         Bro. Thompson – Power Ranch 1st Ward Elder’s Quorum President
o   Faith is a gift.  We receive it as we are willing to act.
o   Less active members are children of God who He loves, who have made covenants but has become distant or offended.  How do you help them?—Go to their home to visit them, build trust, love them, have faith in Christ’s capacity to heal, bear testimony
·         President  Nattress – Gilbert, AZ Mission President
o   Do we understand the significance of Jesus Christ?
o   When I have had a hard time, how did the Savior come to my rescue?
o   What think ye of Christ?
§  He helps us forgive.
§  The key to happiness is to repent and to forgive every day.
o   If all that your children knew of the gospel came from you, how much would they know?
o   Make sure our children know that we know who the Savior is.
o   If all that our neighbors knew of the gospel came from us, how much would they know?
·         Bishop Wilhelmson – Meadowview 1st Ward Bishop
o   “The family is ordained of God.  It is the most important unit in time and in eternity” (Handbook 1.1.1).
o   In families we play, love, work.  Families teach how to be social—how to get along to put other individuals first.
o   Families teach spiritual matters.  The family is to teach children and reinforce to parents about Jesus Christ.
o   Parents should be examples of obedience to teach their children.  The sons of Helaman were true because of their mother’s teaching and example and form their father’s obedience.
·         Elder Zeballos
o   We learn simple things, but true things in the gospel.
o   We can be cleansed.
o   Love is the essence of the gospel.
o   Jesus followed Heavenly Father’s plan and carried it out because He loves us.
o   What will we do with the things we’ve learned and felt tonight? 
§  Levels of learning
·         Level 1 – What did I learn? Will we just have a wonderful remembrance?  Is the knowledge enough to be in the process of conversion? 
·         Level 2 – What did I feel? (Higher learning)
·         Level 3 – What will I do? What changes will I make? (Highest level of learning) 
§  We can’t just stay with feeling or knowledge.
o   How can we help members of the church help with the work of salvation?
§  The work of salvation is:
·         1-Member missionary work  
·         2-Convert Retention
·         3-Activation
·         4-Temple and Family History Work
·          5-Teaching the Gospel
§  The trigger to this is pure love.
o   If I’m going to invite other’s to Christ, I need to be standing very close to Christ myself.
Sunday, October 11, 2015 Session
·         President Derrick – Stake President
o   As you begin to accept invitations to exercise faith you come closer to Christ and it brings you to your knees to repentance so you can be more like Him.
o   There is no better way to get closer to Christ than to keep the Sabbath Day Holy.
§  D&C 59:9--“That thou mayest more fully keep thyself unspotted from the world…” This is a very spotty day.  There are lots of spots flying around hitting us.
§  D&C 59:13—“…that thy fasting may be perfect…”  This doesn’t mean that we fast every Sunday, but every Sabbath day is a fast from the world.
§  Ask Heavenly Father that our desires to keep the Sabbath Day Holy may be fulfilled.  He told a story of two nurses prayed to be able to keep the Sabbath Day Holy and were given a shift change.
§  Ask Heavenly Father, “What lack I yet?”
·         Bishop Court Kleinman – San Tan 2nd Ward
o   God is intimately award of each of us in our trials.  Be faithful, hold on.
o   Don’t end your journey because it gets hard.  Don’t stay in a state of non-progression.
o   The worth of souls is great.  Some need rescue because progression has stopped, some need rescue because they are lost and don’t know where they are.  The Atonement has power to rescue those who are lost.
o   Our Heavenly Father desires all his lost children to return to Him.  – I thought of how I go crazy and tear the house apart when I lose something and how I can’t rest until I find it.  I need to feel similarly to helping rescue Heavenly Father’s lost children.
·         Sis.  Anderson – Wife of councilor in Gilbert Temple Presidency
o   The Gilbert Temple was blessed to e a refuge from the storms of life in the dedicatory prayer.
o   You can strengthen your relationships with your whole family in the temple.
·         Pres. Anderson - councilor in Gilbert Temple Presidency
o   The temple has a strong physical foundation and gives a strong spiritual foundation.  He told stories of how Chile learned from earth quakes to build strong foundations.
·         Elder Zeballos
o   This is the best of all times.  The gospel is restored, technological advances, living prophets and apostles.
o   Lehi wanted to share the fruit he tasted with his family because it brought him joy.
o   Happiness is the object of our existence. 2 Ne. 2:24-25 Joy!  This doesn’t mean we won’t have hard things.
o   How can we improve our happiness?  There are no punishments or rewards, only consequences.  When we obtain any blessing it is a result of our actions. 
o   Don’t wait to be happy--Don’t wait until you go to school, until you go to high school, until you go to college, until you land a job, until you get married etc.  Be happy now!  We can be happy here regardless of our situation.
o   How to be happy:
1.      Obedience to the laws of God.  D&C 11:20 “Behold, this is your work, to keep my commandments, yea, with all your might, mind and strength.”  The Lord’s work is to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man (Moses 1:39)  “…ye should consider on the blessed and happy state of those that keep the commandments of God…” (Mosiah 2:41).  If you’re not happy, consider what commandments you need to improve on.
2.      Repentance.  When we really repent he is always ready, always willing to bless us.  Sin is contrary to the nature of happiness.  Wickedness never was happiness. (Alma 41)  If you want to be happier, find what you need to repent of and do it now.
3.      Forgiveness.  Some say I can forgive, but I can’t forget.  That is another way of saying I can’t forgive.  We have to let our heart forget.  We can’t have any bad feelings for that person remain.  If we want to be happier, identify who we need to forgive and do it now.
4.      Bring souls into the kingdom.  D&C 18:15-16.  In a recent training he attended with President Monson, the prophet reemphasized the importance of going to the rescue.
5.      When I have the spirit I am happy“I am perfectly satisfied that my Father and my god is a cheerful, pleasant, lively, and good-natured Being. Why? Because I am cheerful, pleasant, lively and good-natured when I have His Spirit…. That arises from the perfection of His attributes; He is a jovial, lively person, and a beautiful man” (Heber C. Kimball)

6.      Patience also bring happiness.

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